Sunday, November 23, 2014

forgiving others....

 I told someone that one of my mottos in life was have a heart that forgives the worst, always thank people for everything, always look for at least one good thing about everyone pray for those you love and like and pray harder for the ones you dont like and cant seam to love.

She said, "Some people do not deserve forgiveness or thanks. Some people dont deserve prayer and  some people dont have any good in them...."

God asks us to forgive for a reason. it is poison to the person holding the grudge.  this may be the ONLY time that person is faced with a Christian response that will impact them, how can we not forgive them when God does? how can we expect God to forgive us when we cant forgive each other? 

if I dont want to pray for you, who does? I will because i dont know who else is and God hears even one prayer...

if someone does something, i thank them, even if i dont like it because God said He will work all things out for our good...even the bad....

if i cant find just one good thing about someone, i am not looking thats for sure. even evil has good characteristics how else can it entice a christian??

for me, having forgiveness in my heart and a prayer on my lips and good thoughts in my head shows me how awesome God really is...i sometimes want to stay mad for a while and i now find it hard to do so. that irks me. but i would rather have love in me than hate and that hardness it brings...God is doing things in my life and my body that is amazing.....!!! 

Thank you God and all my friends and family i love you all!!

Tuesday, November 4, 2014

The Story of Life…

I found this on the internet. It was touching so I am sharing it....Thanks to my friend that shared this....you know who you are....



The Story of Life…

Sometimes people come into your life and you know right away that they were meant to be there, to serve some sort of purpose, to teach you a lesson or to help you figure out who you are, or who you want to become.

You never know who these people may be, possibly your roommate, neighbor, coworker, long-lost friend, lover, or even a complete stranger, but when you lock eyes with them, you know at that very moment they will affect your life in some profound way.

Sometimes in life, things may happen to you that seem horrible, painful, and unfair, but in reflection, you find that without overcoming those obstacles, you would have never realized your potential, strength, willpower, or heart. "If you want a rainbow, you have to put up with the rain."

Everything happens for a reason, nothing by chance or by means of luck, it happens because it is meant to be. Illness, injury, love, lost moments of true greatness, and sheer stupidity, all occur to test the limits of your soul. Without these small tests, whatever they may be, life would be like a smoothly paved straight flat road leading to nowhere. It would be safe and comfortable, yet dull and utterly pointless.

The people you meet that will affect your life, will be the success and downfalls you experience though out life, they are who will help you create the person you will grow to become, even the bad experiences can be learned from. In fact, they are the most important experiences because, "Failure teaches success."

If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart, forgive them for they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious when you open you heart, how you must only give to the ones who are worthy of being loyal.

If someone loves you, love them back unconditionally, not only because they love you, but also because in a way they are teaching you about how to love, have trust and about loyalty. Give them that chance to give and receive what they deserve for and from you. "Everything in life is temporary because everything changes, that's why it takes great courage to love, knowing it might end anytime, but having the faith that it will last forever."

Make everyday count. Appreciate every moment and take from those moments everything you possibly can because that may be the only time in your life you will ever have that experience.

Meet new people you have never met before, talk to people you have never talked to before, and actually listen to what they have to say, it might teach you something valuable, but always remember who your true friends are, "A true friend is someone who knows the song in your heart and can sing it back to you when you have forgotten the words".

Let yourself live, love, and break free, make no boundaries, for you can accomplish anything as long as your heart is into it. This is your life, you run the show! Hold your head up because you have every right to. Tell yourself you are a special individual and there is no other out there the same as you. Believe in yourself, for it will be hard for others to believe in you. "If you don't stand up for something, you will fall for anything". You are in control and you can create your own life, so take chances, and go out and live it with absolutely no regret. "The only person you are destined to become is the person you decide to be".

Most importantly, if you love someone tell him or her, for you never know what tomorrow will bring. Don't let one moment pass because it could change you forever. Don't ever fear life, because "What doesn't kill you will only make you stronger". Learn a valuable lesson in each day that you live. "The rich person is not who has the most but who needs the least".

Life is too short to take seriously, so remember to begin each day with a smile…"Never frown, you never know who might be falling in love with your smile." Everyone who walks through your door will make you happy, some on the way in and some on the way out…but always remember to leave the door to your heart open because you never know what may come your way. Believe in Karma, because what comes around really does go around.

Sunday, November 2, 2014

20 Scriptural FACTS Every Christian Should Know

20 Scriptural FACTS Every Christian Should Know -
Appointed by GOD for Eternal Life - Acts 13:48 (cf. John 17:2-3)
Blessed by GOD - Ephesians 1:3ff
Born of GOD - John 1:13 (cf. 1 John 2:29, 3:9, 4:7, 5:1-5, 5:18)
Called by GOD - 2 Timothy 1:9 (cf. Romans 8:29-30)
Chosen by GOD Before Time - Ephesians 1:4ff
Chosen by GOD for Salvation - 2 Thessalonians 2:13
Energized by GOD - Philippians 2:13
Foreknown by GOD - Romans 8:29-30 (cf. 1 Peter 1:2)
Given by GOD - Hebrews 2:13 (cf. John 6:37, 6:65, 17:2-6)
Glorified by GOD - Romans 8:29-30
Justified by GOD - Romans 3:30, 4:5, 8:30-33
Loved by GOD - Romans 5:8, 8:39
Made Alive by GOD - Ephesians 2:4-5 (cf. Colossians 2:13)
Predestined by GOD - Romans 8:29-30 (cf. Ephesians 1:5-11)
Prepared by GOD - Romans 9:23 (cf. Ephesians 2:10)
Preserved by GOD - 1 Thessalonians 5:23 (cf. Psalm 37:28)
Purchased by GOD - Acts 20:28
Sanctified by GOD - 1 Thessalonians 5:23
Saved by GOD - 2 Timothy 1:9
Sealed by GOD - 2 Corinthians 1:21-22



There are many many scriptural facts we should all know....these are just a few...give me some more....what are a few that YOU often refer to??

Saturday, November 1, 2014

Why was Jesus born in a manger, a barn?

Why was Jesus born in a manger, a barn? Well, I dont honestly know, but all through the Old Testament, they were sacrificing animals to God for just about everything. Jesus was God's ultimate sacrifice....His own son, a part of Himself, He sacrificed for every person on Earth....so it makes sense that since all other sacrifices start that way, that Jesus's life also start the same way....Just a thought...

Tuesday, October 28, 2014

I am...

I am worthless.
I am a waste of space,
a sorry excuse of a human.
Just look at me,
no wonder he dont want to be seen with me
I am an embarrassment.
If I want to believe in God,
I have to believe I am a mistake,
I cannot be saved,
I am unworthy.
I am a failure.
I cant do anything,
I have no worthwhile talents.
Things I do are stupid,
People feel sorry for me,
Thats all, noone cares.
My opinions are stupid,
noone cares what I think.
I dont deserve to live.
I dont deserve happiness.
I hate myself because of you and you I AM'S!!

Thursday, October 23, 2014

Words Matter

The words you use to and in front of your children~as well as anyone else~ does matter! Remember you are trying to exude Christianity, forgiveness and love among other things! You are trying to raise good Godly Christian children. When someone you dont know sees you in action at any point in your day, they should see God in your life. Thats the goal I am setting for me, it is unrealistic and I will fail, but I will never stop trying.

One of the most dangerous words in the English language. Almost. The devil only tells lies when it is ALMOST the truth....isnt that amazing?!?! An almost Christian looks right but lives wrong.

Another one. Try. Dont try, just DO!! When you try to do something, you are giving yourself permission to fail. I will try to come to the party. I will try not to run a red light. I will try to read the Bible more. Now reread those without the word try. Do you see the difference? Never try, trying is leaving it open to not finishing, for failure....

Revenge. Trying to "get someone back" for something that they said or did is not only a lack of forgiveness.  It keeps us living in the past. Ladies and Gentlemen, we do not live in the past for a reason! Revenge is a killer of growth and maturity, it only creates unhappiness and frustration! Move forward, create the life you want, the one God wants for you.

Blame. When you blame others for how you feel or think or for things you do you are GIVING THEM POWER OVER YOUR LIFE. How you feel is your own responsibility, why give others the power to make you miserable?

"Like a girl." Never tell you daughter she did anything "like a girl" how else is she supposed to do it? "Like a man?" You are humiliating her, it puts her down, teaches her that she is weak, not as good as men.  And telling you son that only teaches him that girls are "less than" boys. It subconsciously allows him to not respect women!

Ok, so that has little to do with religion but hey, its what was on my mind. I have been thinking a lot about the words I use and how they limit me. Or make failure an option!

I need water because this life has been a tough pill to swallow. I need that living water. Why make it worse with language? lol

Wednesday, October 22, 2014

Do All Things With A Pure Heart

1 Cor 16: 14
Let all that you do be done in Love.

This, ladies and gentleman, even means good deeds! If you hate the soup kitchen you serve food at for the homeless people you dont want to be around it does not count. You then get an attitude, put off a vibe everyone around you notices. You are not helping these people but confirming their fears that they are shunned and unwanted, unloved.

If you are helping your elderly neighbors carry groceries inside just because last time she paid you ten dollars and you expect it again, it is no longer a kindness out of your heart. If you are helping the little old lady cross the street just because you are late and it is faster (and not because you want to make sure she is safe or because you want to help) it become a duty not a service. Those treasures are wooden and worthless to God. They dont count. Your heart, the reason you do things, matters! It matters greatly!

Sometime you have to say something the person you are saying it to may consider mean. If someone is sinning and they dont realize it, they should be told. I would want to be told if I was slipping farther and farther from Jesus and not realizing it! Sometimes in a situation like that, it can get tense and upsetting, but it can be done in love and with kindness!!

It is my dream to work (a paid job) at some kind of place that services the homeless or children. I have no job experience though, no training. I doubt I could find a job anywhere much less one I want. God is working slowly in my life right now, I am trying to make plans but He is not making a way yet. It is just not time I guess....I need a job and I need help. God knows what I need. Please pray for me!